I figure as long as I read slash, I can't get up in arms about the BF liking porn.

I just got to this position after years of being pretty angry about the porn thing. Not that sfd is a raving pornaholic or anything, but I didn't like it (all my low self-esteem and trust issues) and he damn well knew it.

Now I'm the porny one. But I read (and write) it, and don't really get the visual thing as much. It's a complicated issue, and I think Savage was a little ... savage ... as you guys have said.